The crazy fool your ex or your ex is an honorary title anything we've all ever been or has not reached our ears. But we are all someone's ex, then why everyone at some point we were crazy or idiots? I personally do not think so (though once advised me to "make me see") but I'm pretty sure the head of a new girlfriend of a former boyfriend mine, I'm just the crazy ex.
not always have the opportunity (I think it's healthier) to know or share enough with the former partners of our current half grapefruit as to determine whether or not it crazy / idiot, that means the idea we have of them is just that we put together the puzzle pieces to reach us. Of course if we have been harassed or more valid evidence that memories of loved today, so if we are facing a crazy / idiot. However, being honest, are not well most cases.
When I met and started dating the guy NN, he left a list of those, which have not fully recovered and that more than marks on the heart, had left its mark on the pride , brain and told me to in the body temporarily, read, bruises and scratches.
Like many who come our way, at the beginning, it was sweet, concerned, loving, etc, who could be so sick of mistreating a prince like him? In his own words, was never a saint (a phrase used to think not trying to see your face painted as a holy fool to 100%) but a bit naive to spend so much time supporting a witch mad, crazy hysterical, neurotic, jealous and insecure that coaxed with feigned innocence and sweetness. His words were not clear because it was not gentlemanly, but were the topics of the few episodes he shared with me. The result: I ended up hating her convinced she was a madwoman who failed to appreciate it, all without having exchanged a single word or look to it.
For various reasons the case of NN and I was not successful, there was also the subject of local, finite, NEXT. Surprise me when I met her friends in common. To begin, the initial impression given was that of anyone but dove coaxing their gear hypocrite, no no, it was a smart girl, charming, strong in character and wasted safety. We get along well and became friends, enough to cross information and discover that it was the lightness and the once Prince Charming getaways that led her to mistrust and doubt to impair the relationship and become the crazy that I had described. In the fondísimo I knew, or na crazy not spontaneously.
NN removed from your hard drive the actions that caused the reactions described as crazy then will you chose to be a victim rather than the villain of the story ( is always easier to blame other) will subconsciously I've tried to console him for his bad experience and boost their exaggerations, will, be will be. Will be serene but the issue is that I have found enough so-called pseudo fools and mad to know that we tend to exaggerate the guilt of another.
Since then I considered the old council "believes only half of what you say "more, now I try to believe only what I see or you can check for myself. When starting I want to convince your ex is crazy just remember that I am the ex of someone I'm NOT crazy. I have one I also remember that another former morons who thought for a while but that after the wounds healed became exes only one to occupy a special place in my memory box. think about the times I acted impulsively and did things without thinking, but who have not already done? who did not lose it in the discussion papers? who never set foot in the stick and broke? A low point as those can not and should blunt our right to be considered a good potential partner and you should mark them as dangerous for anyone interested in us romantically.
So I understand that many times is stupid and crazy characters in a novel which is transmitted only in our imagination and if possible we should avoid airing.
Disclaimer:
do not intend to hold harmless
The real crazy:
- Threatens car pulled up or cut your wrists if you do not answer that requires
- Call your mom and friends to treat psychotic way to intercede for her
- ago impossible to get pregnant (or pretends to be) to "hold you" for the rest of his life
- ago strange uses of mails and text messages you sent to make it clear that you crawled through it
The real moron:
- the exit is to your college or work daily until you talk to him
- drunk grabbed the hobby in the early morning call to remind the intimacies who shared
- Threatens to beat anyone who deigns to come to you, including best friend and life in the worst cases even cousins \u200b\u200b
- comes to meetings together with 2 Gorilón of backup to try to intimidate your new guy
Sorry for PS 1 If you identify your ex more in the disclaimer that in the post.
PS 2 I am aware that the disclaimer about what they do the real crazy and stupid was very short
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